In general, many of the people I know and associate with are more reserved or held back when it comes to approaching or speaking to a stranger. This doesn’t only apply to photography but if we take for example, street photography…there have been plenty of occasions where a fellow photographer and I are walking around and capturing images on the street, but as soon as the subject they’re shooting looks over at them, they quickly lower their lens. Why is that? Because we think that we’re upsetting the person by taking their photo? We all know that it’s not an issue of rights because in a public place I’m free to take a photo of just about anyone doing anything.
Now what if we see someone who looks interesting? Let’s say there’s a person walking down the street with a sign and you’d like to stop them and capture their image. Do you come up to them, talk to them, ask them? Surprisingly of the many people I’ve asked and gotten feedback from either take the candid approach in capturing someones image or simply never make the effort or approach.
Let’s take a look at the images below…
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3 (image captured by Snezhana)

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I have more images like these, but just a small example, what these all have in common…is that when I approached, posed, and snapped the photo…I didn’t say a single word to any of these people. And in image #3 after demoing that it could be done, Snezhana gathered the courage and did it herself!
Didn’t say a word to them? Not one? From start to finish? Nope. Not one word. I would approach people by either putting myself in their path or tapping them on the shoulder and capturing their photo after making gestures that basically implied I wanted to capture their photo, then get them to pose the way I wanted, and give them a thumbs up after capturing the image and then leave.
So why bother doing this or what’s the point? The point is that it doesn’t matter what you say to a person when you approach them. Well let me correct myself there, I’m sure you can say some totally odd and off the wall thing that might send folks running for the hills. But the point is that the majority of your approach is in your own confidence and body language. And this stems to just about any general social situation, not just photography. When you see the guy or girl who’s the life of the party, are they the life of the party because they’re necessarily saying something interesting or is it that they are perhaps exuding confidence, a positive attitude, good body language, etc…? We pick up a lot more on the general vibe of a person rather than WHAT they are saying. It’s the reason I’ve seen really bad pickup lines work at a bar and really good lines fail…body language.
Anyone who’s been doing photography for sometime has heard of the bad stories. One photographer I know was taking shots of his kids at a park and one of the mothers at the park started yelling at him saying that he was trying to just take pictures of her kids and that he was not allowed to do that, so on and so on. And after we hear things like that, it can become discouraging. But that’s not the norm, that’s not what happens on a daily basis. You hear about the single plane crash on the news, but not about the other million flights that landed safely…we forget that many of the oddities, tragedies, and negative things we hear, are not the norm. So that little voice in our head can very easily say “put that camera down” if someone looks over. Or the voice will tell us to keep on walking if there’s an interesting image of a person we want to capture since that would involve interaction.
But it shouldn’t. I believe that we are all capable of capturing an image without saying a single word. In fact when Bryan Allen, a fellow photographer and mentor told me about it, I was in disbelief myself. I asked him “So you went around to a bunch of people and tried it. Well what happened?” His response was “Nothing. It was no different than approaching people and saying something. All but one couple let me take their photo and even then I saw them a few minutes later and they changed their mind and decided they’d let me capture them.” And sure enough when I built up some confidence, made sure I stayed positive and had good body language it worked the same for me. Not one person has ever said no to my silent approach in capturing their image in my 40 or 50 attempts.
So your assignment, should you choose to accept it is to do the same. The next time you’re out walking the street with your camera and see someone or something interesting, give it a shot! Of course once you’re comfortable with the silent approach then coming up and speaking to a person is good
I’ve met some very interesting people in simply taking some time and having a conversation.

































































































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